ArticlesAfter the
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Psalm 30:5 (NIV) For his
anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping
may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.
Why
does God send us through so many trials and tribulations? We’ve all
heard the stories, the experiences of others, and we’ve been through
a few ‘weepy’ nights ourselves. And we all know that these
experiences (theoretically at least) are supposed to make us
stronger. We are the head and not the tail, we remind ourselves in
the midst of our pain. He will never give us more than we can bear,
our friends say to comfort us when we are down. No weapon formed
against us shall prosper, we whisper hopefully when our marriages,
our jobs, or our families seem on the verge of falling apart. And
this is all supposed to make us stronger?
I’ve wondered about this and I’m sure you have to. Once, in my
anger towards God (after a particularly lengthy ‘trial’), I told God
exactly why I was upset with Him: He could make this trial go away
any time He chose. So, I reasoned with Him, if I was suffering, I
was suffering because of Him. And what kind of God was that, I
questioned Him? What kind of loving, kind, responsive God would
watch me go through this pain and not lift a finger to help me?
Yeah, I was the head and not the tail alright – the head of a big,
fat mess!
Not the
right attitude, of course, but an honest response. And, even if you
have not felt this type of anger towards God, haven’t you often
wondered why He sends us through what He sends us through? Do you
ever stop to think (as I have, many times), that there has to be an
easier way to gain maturity, gain strength, learn patience and learn
to be long-suffering? He is God, after all – can’t He just
magically give us those qualities instead of having us sweat it out
for days, months, or in the most painful cases, years?
So
there has to be a reason. Why do we go through all our trials and
tribulations? For exactly the reasons that we have been led to
believe – because God is trying to mature us (James 1: 2-4).
Because God wants to rid of us all those qualities that are not like
Him (Psalm 66:10). And because He uses our suffering to help us
develop Godly characteristics (Romans 5:3-5). The simple truth of
the matter is that most of us would not be the loving, kind, patient
people we are today had it not been for something we had gone
through. We would probably not appreciate God, our families, our
friends or the simple joys of life had we not surmounted some
obstacle, overcome some temptation or went through the horrors of
our own personal trial by fire.
Admit
it – you’re a better person today because of a liberal helping of
hurt, humiliation, difficult circumstances and stress. And, if
you’re not, then consider yourself still in the training process.
There
is, however, a benefit to journeying through the bad times.
Something that is only hinted at in the Bible when James exhorts us
to rejoice in tribulation and Paul talks about the hope that is
produced through suffering. There is a sweet recompense for all
that we have gone through, all the sleepless, lonely, weeping nights
we’ve experienced and a joy that lessens the pain of lost loved
ones, battered friendships or bruised egos. I call it
After the Pain.
After the Pain is what David talks about
in Psalms 30. He reminds us that we may weep for a night, but, hold
on, because Joy comes in the morning! Does that mean we only have to
endure for one night and then, when the morning comes, things will
all be worked out? Only if you are very lucky. That dark ‘night’
can last days, months or even years. The woman who had the issue of
blood experienced 11 lonely years of ‘night’. Blind Bartimeus had
been blind since ‘birth’ – a entire lifetime of ‘night’. God
promised Abraham a son at 86 years old and his night didn’t end
until 13 years later! How long will your ‘night’ last? As long as
it takes. But, hold on, because Joy comes in the morning!
After the Pain is the sweet rejoicing, the
sublime happiness, the wild anticipation you feel when (finally!)
this trial has come to an end! You cry tears of joy. You tell all
your friends about your breakthrough. You recount the goodness of
God. The pain is forgotten. The bad memories are put away. And a
new season in your life begins.
Even more important than the outward rejoicing, however, is the
inner peace that After the Pain brings. Habits you thought
would rule you for a lifetime are all of a sudden small cause for
concern. Worries that kept you up at night are just vague shadows
in your mind. Inner peace, and its companion – contentment – now
rule your life. This is your time. This is your season. Enjoy
it. And rejoice. Until the next trial begins.
That’s why I believe the writers of the Bible always reminded us to
rejoice, to think positively and to turn our cares over to God – in
the midst of trials and tribulations. Because they knew (and
you are learning) that there is a sweet blessedness, peace and
relief that will be yours once this pain has passed. And you will
be even better prepared – more patient, more loving, more patient –
to face the next trial that will come you way.
So spend as little time as possible muddling in your pain. Keep
your thoughts as positive as you are able. Rejoice now and,
if you can’t do that, at least say thank you to the One who will
bring you through.
Weeping may endure for a night,
but…
After the Pain
Joy will come.
Be blessed!
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